So online dating -- on a site, an app or three, or both -- is a no-brainer.

It expands your dating pool exponentially, opens you up to new experiences and people, and pretty much the entirety of the single (and some of the not-so-single) population is doing it. When I launched my business two and a half years ago, I had no idea what the response would be like, so I charged for a complete makeover. This is your romantic life that we’re talking about.

Erica: I paid MY share & let him know that there was no need to ask for a second “date”. He ask me out, we met up, and so happens he left his wallet.

If you’re attempting to court me, then you need to pay for the date. Yeah right, that was the first n last time I seen him n paid for a meal. Faren: When I’m in a relationship I don’t mind paying for a date but if we’re just dating I’m not paying. We went to the movies and he reached in his pockets and said I don’t have enough then looked at me with a stupid look on his face. Also ( and this is gross) he popped a pimple on his face and reached into my bag of popcorn that I bought and started stuffing his face. William: If you really vibe with someone it should never be an issue.

But when you think about it, this spike makes total sense. And the blanket you’re under is big enough for two.Like, to exaggerate this for the sake of making a point, if you ask me on a date and I say sure and you say “great, let’s go to Eleven Madison Park!” You’ve made it awkward for me to say “well, I’m not the most fantastically wealthy person.”JS: Uhh, I absolutely would be like “just so we’re clear you’re paying for Eleven Madison Park” if that were mentioned because I would not want to get there and realize I’m on the hook for 0.Roz: Left him there with the entire bill Pretty: No man has ever “asked”.Some have assumed I knew d be paying for my portion.In any event, it’s factors like these and many more that add up to a lot of confusion and this gray area.Let’s Clear Up Some Confusion As a relationship coach who works with clients all over the world, I’m frequently asked about who should pay on a date.