If you're familiar with this blog, you know that I'm not sure what the hubbub about virginity is all about.While there is a much greater chance that someone will not have a sexually transmittable ailment, there's also a pretty decent chance that they will be rotten in bed (though some people may relish the ability to teach a lover how to do it like their way, the old Sinatra method).It was arranged by our parents(pretty common in India.I'm okay with it, and don't have any complains there). Frankly, I'm really only impressed when an attractive, socially-astute, clever person doesn't inadvertently try it or just give in out of curiosity. At any rate, per MSNBC.com, some people feel VERY differently.In fact, some people prefer their muffins completely unbuttered. Popkins picks off some low-hanging fruit in her dissection of the site and its fetishization of cherry pie. Furthermore, Popkins takes umbrage with their mention of a virginity auction, though for the wrong reason.The website You And Me Are purports to be an alternative to all those other dating sites in which the goal is to put you-know-what you-know-where without putting a ring on you-know-what. One Natalie Dylan raffled off her first time for greater than million (allegedly).

"Our site is designed specifically for singles who share the value of premarital sexual abstinence," said Jose Colin, according to PR Newswire.

I have a solid group of friends, a supportive family and a clear awareness of who I am and who I want to be. Yet the moment I have to tell the guy I’m dating that sex is not an option, I become a squirmy, awkward, fidgety girl who can’t make eye contact or put together a complete sentence.

Think junior high dance, only without a bathroom to hide in.

It’s true I always had a crush on one (or two) boys and had my fair share of boyfriends, but no relationship ever got serious enough where sex was even a thought, let alone a deal breaker.

For most of my junior high and high school years, I played the role of the friend — the token girl in a group of boys who were more interested in taking my advice for how to ask a girl to prom than taking me to prom.